Saturday, February 12, 2011

Single life..pros and cons!

Hey2 readers!

Lately, a few of my friends has been writing about relationship stuff and I am currently following a blog called Terfaktab which has lots of entry on relationship stuff..haha..Well,in conjunction with Valentine's Day on monday,I would like to write about some relationship stuff..but I dont have any ideas on what to write..I guess for this entry i'll write the pros and cons of being single! hahaha...This findings is based on my own experience not a general thing..

PROS!


1) I actually save money! Seriously! I dont have to top up my phone n now that my house in Malacca have a landline, the calls to my home are free using voip..so I save money there..

2) I focus more on my studies! I am more focused when I dont have to think about problems that are not helping me in any ways,and I dont need to always think about my significant other..Is he well?Have he had dinner yet?Is he happy? not anymore! I am currently moving fast with my assignments..yeahhh!

3) No more relationship problems! weeeeeee....no more crying myself to sleep..

4) Teaches me to be more independent and not depend on guys that much...



CONS!

1) I admit that I feel jealous seeing my friends that have boyfriends..they can be mushy,romantic and I would love to have someone to love me..

2) All I see are happy couples! no matter where I go..the town,the uni,otw to class,facebook,tumblr,blog and everywhere!

3) There is no one I can turn to other than my friends..huhu..

There are times that I LOVE being single but there are times that I think it would be fun having someone to care and love me..I am leaving my love life to fate..maybe it's not my time yet to be in a relationship..I am not in a hurry but maybe it will be soon or in the near future..who knows..insyallah..=)

13 comments:

Aida Ismail said...

surely, there will come someone into your life, who cares about you. And you will care for each other as well =)

Ilidina.. said...

insyallah there will..thanks cikda! =)

niny said...

agree with aida's statement above! it's okay. i think it's good to have LDR cuz no dating (save money), still u have boyfie to mushy2 kepompom. *okay, i think my statement isn't related to ur point pon! well, better to be single. single ladies, let's partayyyyy!!!! *mati aku cakap gini*

Ilidina.. said...

niny: sebuk je nk komen..haha..ko bukan single ladies so the bole komen..hahaha

nohskywalker said...

matured post :D

Ilidina.. said...

noh: thanks! =)

~aisya~ said...

nice post.. :) single ladies rock!!! hehhehe..

Ilidina.. said...

cha: yeahhh! single ladies! hahaha

Seluar Terbang said...

Its certainly true, but for some reason it's kinda sad. I have to admit in single life, you won't have to worry about others, but as you keep seeing people around you, I wish I have someone like that in my life... then... [sigh]...

But, if you see want a long term relationship that last forever, see if your bf started to change after your honeymoon period is over...

Ilidina.. said...

seluar terbang: well said..=)

CAYANG ALIN said...

Agree..masa kita study kita tak rasa sangat..bila dah start keje memang akan terasa..huhu

Amira is mira said...

statement yang ada benarnya,....!!sokong 100%!!

Ilidina.. said...

alin: yup2..btol la..

mira: time kaseh sokong..hee